The Missing Piece for Military Families
A Proven Solution for Military Families ...
- No Couple's Work
- It's NOT Therapy nor Counseling
- Online Training Worldwide
- Support for the Spouse at Home
- Proven Skill Set Based Solution
- Proven Solutions for Marriage & Parenting
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RDO Is PROUD to Serve Those Who Serve Our Country!
Over HALF of All RelationshipU Students Have Been Military &
1st Responder Families!
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Meet THE AUTHORS
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We Are The "HOW" People
STACEY & PAUL MARTINO invented their Relationship Development® Methodology and 100s of proprietary tools. Their methodology is a SKILL SET based method of relating to others.
For over 14 years, they have shared their skill set training with thousands of people, from all over the world.
They have helped people to transform their relationships, save their marriage, create harmony in their home, have a drama-free workplace and communicate effectively with people wired differently than themselves.
Through their profound work, the Martino’s have shown that relating to other people is a skill-set and it can be learned.
The Martino’s have proven that it only takes ONE person to transform any human-to-human interaction!
Paul & Stacey Martino
Creators of Relationship Development® & Hay House Authors, The Missing Piece
From Hay House Authors of
"The Only Book In the History of Books to Promise a 1-Person Relationship Method."
There has never been a book published which promises a one-person relationship method before.
But this isn't just a theory or idea, the Relationship Development Methodology has been proven by thousands of students, for over 14 years.
When just ONE Leader in an organization implements the Relationship Development skill sets, others will change in response to them.
Now it's your turn to finally get The Missing Piece.
Praise for The Relationship Development®
Method from Military & First Responder Students
“RelationshipU, more than counseling or extensive work on myself, was the real key to saving and revitalizing my marriage. And my husband didn’t need to participate AT ALL for this transformation. Maybe it’s the military in me, but I always prefer to do what works.”
— M. D., Lieutenant Commander, USN Retired
“Stacey and Paul Martino are world changers! Relationship Development has taken me to my next level in every area of my life. It fundamentally changed the way I approach life, and now I have total confidence in my ability to skillfully navigate whatever comes next. Despite ongoing challenges, I am the happiest and most at peace that I have ever been. I am eternally grateful to Stacey and Paul for the skills
and tools they teach with such incredible talent, wisdom, and sparkly joy! They are among the most important people of our generation, and I most enthusiastically recommend their teachings to anyone looking to uplevel their life and evolve their soul. Thank you, Martinos, for all you do, and most importantly, who you are!”
— D.H. USAF Retired & Wife of USAF Officer
“RelationshipU not only meets us in the detachments and deployments with sound skills to navigate everything that comes with them, these strategies profoundly influence each and every interaction. The tested methods have supported every part of my life and I, without question, recommend Relationship Development.”
— AK sister of Retired Commander, US Navy
"Relationship Development is a game changer. The tools shared will affect every (and I mean every) relationship, whether it’s spouse, parent/child, business, co-worker, neighbor. Each relationship can be completely directed in a positive, uplifting, and loving way!”
— BV, Police Officer
“Relationship Development transformed our marriage when political tensions were straining our relationship. By implementing the methods, I shifted how I approached our conversations, especially around politics. Remarkably, this change defused the tension, and my husband, without even knowing about the tools, became more relaxed and happier. As we celebrate 30 years of marriage this year, our relationship, which had been under pressure, is now stronger and more connected. Today, we’ve moved past the political bickering and rediscovered the deep love and passion that first brought us together.”
— L.W. Wife of Military Officer, Retired
“Before Relationship Development I had no awareness how much of my military/law enforcement identity was showing up and running the show at home with my husband and kids. This caused so many problems to the point that my marriage was hanging by a thread, and I felt I was losing my kids, meaning our relationship was only getting more and more distant. Relationship Developed equipped me with the tools to save my marriage and build a relationship with my kids where there is trust and rapport. I started to excel at work using this tools with my staff and supervisor. Gaining cooperation without compromise.”
— B.P., Sgt. USMC Honorably Discharged - Sgt. Santa Clara County Sheriff’s Office
“Being an Air Force wife was a bitter sweet time in my life. Sweet because of all the experiences lived and friendships made. Bitter because at times it was like being a single parent and our relationship and family life suffered greatly. Looking back, I see that we didn’t have the tools to navigate the constant separations, and deployments; as time went by, I grew deeply unhappy and separated my partner of 25 years. Finding RelationshipU at the time I was pursuing divorce, was a watershed; it gave me the much needed awareness and tools to understand that I had not married the wrong person, I just lacked awareness of the dynamics that had led us to this point. A short time into RU allowed us to get back together, see each other differently and start creating a new relationship. I’m So grateful to have said yes to this work, as RU has enhanced all aspects of our lives, most importantly our relationship with our now adult kids, but also with extended family and my business. As Stacey and Paul always say, relationship is a skill set and it can be learned! It’s been so worth it for us💜.”
— A.M, Air Force Wife (Retired)
“Through the military retirement process my partner was sent to a psychiatrist. During those evaluation sessions, the psychiatrist told him the only path forward was for us to separate. This lit a fire within me. I implemented every piece of Relationship Development. This lead to me single handedly saving our marriage and has given our child the gift of living in a home with two joy filled parents who truly want the best for each other every day. Putting each others happiness above our own and creating the marriage and life together we have always dreamt of.”
— J.S., Wife US Navy Seals
“My partner is a police officer, and the stress of being in relationship with a first responder can really take a toll. RelationshipU gave me the support I needed, the community I craved, and skill set essential to navigating the unique set of issues that came up for us. These are real solutions that anyone can learn if they are committed to creating the relationship they want. I wholeheartedly recommend Relationship Development to everybody.”
— J.S. Wife of Police Officer
Disclaimer: Our programs and content are not couple's counseling and are not intended as professional counseling, mental health, medical, financial, or legal advice. If you require such assistance, please seek the advice of a qualified professional.
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