“Relationship Development has transformed every aspect of my life, from my marriage and parenting to work and family relationships. I can now say that I truly love myself. Life’s challenges haven’t stopped, yet my happiness level keeps on increasing. This method is something every human being deserves to know.” 

“Relationship Development has completely transformed my life. I first thought it was going to make my marriage better. What I have actually received has been an absolute gift! The level of peace and joy I get to experience every day is something I never thought was possible. This, from implementing the tools and strategies to become the best and most authentic version of myself possible.” 

“By the grace of God, I found Relationship Development. With Paul and Stacey’s guidance, not only was our marriage saved, but it has become better than it ever was before. Our family is joy filled, connected, and there’s a newfound peace in our home. We no longer run to the end of our skillset quickly; we are consistently growing

“Relationship Development transformed our marriage when political tensions were straining our relationship. By implementing the methods, I shifted how I approached our conversations, especially around politics. Remarkably, this change defused the tension, and my husband, without even knowing about the tools, became more relaxed and happier. As we celebrate 30 years of marriage this year, our relationship, which had been under pressure, is now stronger and more connected. Today, we’ve moved past the political bickering and rediscovered the deep love and passion that first brought us together.”

“Relationship Development has changed my life for the better. I didn’t know there was so much to learn about relationships until I met Stacey and Paul. Everyone needs to learn the Relationship Development skillset and take their relationships to the next level!” 

“I shudder to think what my life would have looked like without finding Relationship Development. I remember the enormous relief when I read Stacey’s words, ‘It isn’t parenting that you hate, it’s Demand Relationship parenting that you hate!’ And the magic isn’t just in the information she teaches, which is so revolutionary that it sometimes takes some time to accept, but the strategies to live it. Prior to this, I had read so many books and attended so many workshops regarding personal development. And after a few weeks, I struggled to incorporate those amazing principles into my life and just felt like a failure. Since doing Relationship Development, I have solved so many kerfuffles for our family. I’ve been able to navigate a lot of changes at work and have been promoted three times in my position (when I started was on the verge of elimination). And best of all, I’m able to create this without pleasing or bulldozing and I’m continuing to uncover my most authentic self.”

“The best part of using the Relationship Development Method is that only one person has to learn and implement it to transform their relationships. By using all of the tools and frameworks, I was able to bring peace into my household. Thank you, Stacey and Paul, for breaking down this method into pieces that make sense. I am so grateful to be closer to my husband and that we are raising our girls together as a team thanks to this work!” 

“Before we started the Martinos’ Relationship Development, my wife said that if something didn’t change soon, she was leaving. Then, my kids started encouraging her to leave. She was usually annoyed with me, and we fought all the time. Now our marriage is unshakeable, we have fun together, and we can navigate tough conversations.”

“Math was always my favorite subject. Apply the formula and get a predictable result. Learning Relationship Development was mind blowing. Our home went from chaos to calm. It teaches you the formulas to get predictable results in your relationships with people!”

“When I first met Paul and Stacey, I was living in a sad and angry version of myself. I was yelling at my kids and husband daily and held a high level of resentment toward my parents. After working through the Relationship Development curriculum and applying a few of the many tools available, I was able to see a difference. The levels of stress decreased and the peace in our home increased. I worked through past hurts and learned tools to navigate anything that comes my way. Relationship Development has changed my family tree and my kids get to experience a kinder and more authentic version of mom.” 

“I came to Paul and Stacey and Relationship Development broken and in victim mode. My main focus when I joined was to find someone to share my life with and to have better relationships with my two adult sons. And by using their Relationship Development system, Paul and Stacey helped change my life! Because I not only have achieved those two goals but have created an amazing relationship with myself! And I absolutely couldn’t be happier!” 

“Before I found Relationship Development, I was exhausted! I questioned if I ‘made the wrong choice’ in my partner, often asked myself ‘how did I get here, feeling unhappy and sad most of the time?’ When I discovered the Martinos, I started diving into their programs and pretty much every word they said. I was thinking, Wait. What? How come nobody ever told me this? Implementing the Relationship Development Method has changed my life. I found myself and was no longer unhappy and crying every day. I also discovered I didn’t make the wrong choice in my partner! I believe everyone deserves to know this. One of the best decisions I ever made!” 

“Relationship Development has, without exaggeration, changed every area of my life. Rebuilding the friendship with my former husband, so we can coparent as a team, I got what I needed to build a real relationship with my two grown children to an extent I didn’t even know is possible. They live Relationship Development every day! And the best: I got to know myself, I am the happiest I have ever been and it keeps getting better and better! There truly is no limit!” 

“Before Relationship Development, my husband and I were headed for divorce, and I didn’t really want that. Thank God for Relationship Development. Paul and Stacey helped us. Not only did I save my marriage, but it’s so much better than our marriage ever was before. Our kids are happier, there’s more rapport and systems in our

“Relationship Development has made my marriage and our relationship so much stronger and better. I joined because we were heading into retirement, and I wanted more than just being with my husband and going through the motions. After implementing, I began to see changes, big and small, and every day gets better; my marriage is now fun, exciting, and passionate, and I love my husband so much. There’s so much more than just getting by.”